A self-assessment to locate where weight is ending… and where formation is being invited.
Before You Begin
Set aside unhurried time. Answer as you truly are — not as you wish to be. Resist the urge to optimise your answers. Complete all five sections before interpreting.
This is not a measure of worth. It is a tool of truth.
1Rarely true
2Occasionally true
3Often true
4Mostly true
5Deeply true
0 / 25
C
Confrontation
Facing truth without illusion
Question 1
I can name where I am inwardly without pretending.
Question 2
I am willing to face fear, shame, or control beneath my leadership.
Question 3
I have trusted relationships where truth is spoken.
Question 4
I practise confession and honesty before God.
Question 5
I am not hiding from reality.
0
Confrontation Score / 25
A
Authority Received
Leadership as stewardship, not self-manufacture
Question 1
I see my leadership as entrusted, not earned.
Question 2
I do not need outcomes to validate my worth.
Question 3
I can submit plans and identity to Christ.
Question 4
I increasingly live from received identity, not striving.
Question 5
I practise surrender rather than control.
0
Authority Received Score / 25
R
Responsibility
Weight without identity collapse
Question 1
I can carry responsibility without becoming consumed.
Question 2
I recognise my limits and practise boundaries.
Question 3
I share burdens instead of isolating.
Question 4
I release outcomes that are not mine to control.
Question 5
Leadership feels like stewardship, not survival.
0
Responsibility Score / 25
R
Refinement
Pressure that purifies
Question 1
I can see hardship as formation, not interruption.
Question 2
I do not resent difficult seasons as meaningless.
Question 3
I am learning endurance with God.
Question 4
Pressure is refining rather than hardening me.
Question 5
I remain open under strain.
0
Refinement Score / 25
Y
Yielded Faithfulness
Obedience beyond applause
Question 1
I practise faithfulness even when unseen.
Question 2
I am less driven by approval than before.
Question 3
I trust grace more than performance.
Question 4
I can rest because Christ has finished the work.
Question 5
Faithfulness matters more than success.
0
Yielded Faithfulness Score / 25
Your CARRY Score
0
/ 125
Your Entry Point
Your Strength
Remember
The goal is not a number. The goal is awareness. The composite number is less important than the pattern across sections. Your lowest section is your invitation — not your indictment.
Go Deeper
The Extended Soul Diagnostic
72 questions across six dimensions. Pattern analysis identifies your formation profile. Personalised interpretation and reflection questions from the book.